DON’T SIT IN MY PEW
By Dr. M. R. Dowler
I’m going to try to maneuver
through a spiritual minefield this week---so here’s goes! Sometimes it funny
how we worship God at home and in church. In some aspects we tend to do things
differently than others, and yet, many times we do the same things as a
collective group in church. What I’m talking about today is of course, traditions,
which can be good or bad. For example, many evangelical churches have a
Christmas play in which the children act out the parts of Mary and Joseph, the
Wise Men and the Shepherds (Jesus is usually a doll baby in the manger). Nice,
sweet, harmless and totally traditional. You may have participated in such an
activity as a child, and now enjoy watching your children or grandchildren
carry on the tradition.
But what about, for example, the
family pew? Some older churches still have them. Generations of the family have
sat in the same pew, and God forbid that any visitor would mistakenly sit in
the family pew, as Southern Gospel singer Tim Lovelace sang about in his
humorous song Don’t Sit in My Pew.
Silly? I’d say so, and yet an old tradition has now become an unwritten (and
unscriptural) rule in church. Or what about an object in church purchased
generations ago that needs to be replaced or discarded…well good luck with that
tradition! Again, not all traditions are bad. So how can you tell the
difference between a good tradition and a bad one?
The word tradition is used
fourteen times in the Bible; all in the NT. Jesus referred to traditions eight
times; Paul, five times, and the Apostle Peter, one time. Interestingly, every
time Jesus spoke of traditions, He criticized them, stating they were pointless
and unscriptural (Matthew 15:3, 6; Mark 7:7-9). Paul spoke positively of
traditions three times, and negatively twice (Colossians 2:8; Galatians 1:14 ). However, despite Jesus’ harsh
criticism, there was one tradition He used as a theological object lesson---the
traditional lighting of the giant menorahs in the temple during Hanukah (John 8:12 ). There He called Himself the “light of
the world” while perhaps pointing to the bright light of the menorahs.
The theological rule about
traditions is that they are doctrinally-safe when they are validated by the
scriptures (Acts 17:11 ; 2
Thessalonians 2:15 ); in essence, “the
Bible is the mother of tradition” (not the other way around). The Pharisees
hated Jesus when He refused to approve their “traditions of the elders” (Matthew
15:2) because they were man-made rules and not scripturally-mandated means to
worship God. In closing, no one has a right to criticize or condemn any other
person’s manner of worship, traditionally or otherwise (Colossians 2:16 ). So enjoy good family and church
traditions. And you can sit in my pew. Think about it.